“A Day in the Life” of the Hill Family Academy (maybe)
It’s “Day in the Life” week at Heart of the Matter’s “Not Back to School Blog Hop.” My “day in the life” is somewhat theoretical at this point since we haven’t gotten back to a school year schedule yet and I am hoping to make some changes from what our schedule looked like last year.
We’re just finishing up our summer break. When not busy with a particular activity like swimming lessons, most of the days in our life lately have looked like un-rushed early mornings, lots of time playing inside and out the rest of the morning (or maybe a playdate or shopping trip or other outing), time for reading or computer games for the kids or chores while Kai naps, and more playing outside in the late afternoon or early evening. For the past month we’ve been doing a little bit of Madeline’s history and Erik’s preschool lessons where ever we could fit them in.
Here’s what I am hoping a “day in our life” will look like once our school year is in full swing. I am not very good at following precise schedules, but I am going to try and at least make one to give us something to follow and not have utter chaos.
I will aim to get up before the kids to get ready for the day, make coffee and have some time to read the Bible and pray. I think this might need to be at 6:15 am. My guess is that at least some mornings Kai (currently 18 months old) will be up before the other kids and while I am still in the middle of this routine…he is my early bird! But I can do these things with him around if I need to!
The other two kids will hopefully wake up after I have finished these things! Either Madeline (age 6) or Erik (almost 3.5) picks one show to watch (a video that’s 30 minutes or less or a recorded program from our DVR). Kai usually watches with them — I suppose pretty soon he will get turns to pick out the show too! This will be my time to spend on the computer. Or time to do other morning routine things that I didn’t get to before they woke up!
After the show it’s time for breakfast. Typically this is something really quick to prepare like cereal, toast or a baked good that I prepped the night before or on another day. Then the kids get dressed if they haven’t yet. I’d like to get in the habit of reading the Bible or age-appropriate devotional materials to the kids during breakfast or shortly after. We’ll see if that is a habit I can be consistent with! I would like to get devotional time with the kids in a time slot separate from “school” stuff so that we make a habit to do it even on non-school days. After all, reading the Bible isn’t just a school subject — it’s a habit for life!
I’m thinking of having the kids play with each other for about half an hour after breakfast, to give me some time in the schedule to run through some quick chores. This will be a new schedule element. I’ll be testing this out to see if it is helpful, or if it makes it that much harder to bring our focus around to doing school.
Then comes a block of school time that will last from about 9 am to noon (with some breaks and snacks in there too!). I am planning on doing all of Madeline’s academic subjects every day we do the regular school schedule, and trying out setting a timer to make sure we don’t spend too long on any one thing. I discovered last year that my tendency is to keep at something until Madeline is absolutely done with it. But that meant that it was hard to find time for everything because some days we might end up spending an hour on math or 45 minutes on phonics. If it seems to jarring to spend 15-20 minutes per subject each day, I am going to try more of a planned “block” schedule with longer blocks for each subject area and not doing them every day.
That three hour block will also include half an hour of preschool for Erik. I would guess that during that three hour block, Erik will spend some of the non-preschool time playing alone or with Kai, and some of the time at the table with Madeline and I either trying to participate with us or doing art or an activity book at the table.
I am hoping I have the energy to come up with some special toys for Kai to get out just during school time and maybe some special activities for him too. I know that he will have Erik to play with quite a bit during school time, and he doesn’t mind too much playing by himself…or scribbling on paper with us at the table.
After the school block in the morning, we’ll have lunch (hopefully the kids will be playing and perhaps Madeline will work on a bit of independent work while I make lunch and bring it to the table). After lunch the kids will have a bit more time to play freely. If the morning chore time doesn’t work out so well, this play time may be a bit longer so I can do more chores after lunch.
After this play time, Kai will take a nap. During nap time, we’ll do our elective subjects like art and music, have time for read-alouds, maybe do some science experiments or messier history projects, and occasionally cook or bake or play board games. I am assuming Erik will want to join Madeline for these endeavors. This should work out to one elective subject per day, followed by some (or maybe a lot) of read-aloud time.
After 30-60 minutes of these electives and reading, I am aiming to have Erik rest for 30 minutes, and Madeline have 30 minutes to either rest, read or spend time at her desk in the “nook” upstairs where she can write, draw, etc. I’ll either rest, work on early dinner preparations or perhaps chores or computer time.
After this, Madeline will get 30 minutes on the computer if she would like to do this, or extra time for reading, playing or art. I’m hoping I’ll have the patience to help Erik on the other computer at the same time at least once or twice a week (he hasn’t learned how to “mouse” yet), and other days he can play or choose another activity that is good to do while Kai is sleeping (assuming he is still asleep at this point!) like play-doh or painting.
In an ideal world Kai would wake up after those two hours, and the kids would have been full enough from lunch that they didn’t even ask for a snack until this time, then we all eat a snack together. Maybe that will all work out once a week or so.
We then have a two and a half or three hour block of time before dinner. Some days this will be chore time together (like laundry folding), some days play time (perhaps outside or with friends), some days errands, or once a week, a late afternoon elective class for Madeline (or if we do the Ballet class that meets right after lunch once a week for part of the year, on that day Kai’s nap and the afternoon routine get pushed back an hour and a half or more, and then this late-afternoon block all but disappears!).
The last 30-60 minutes before dinner consists of time for me to prepare dinner (unless I got it done earlier) and (in an ideal world) time for the kids to straighten up and put away whatever toys, school stuff and art supplies they have gotten out.
Most days I let the kids pick out one more 30-minute-or-less show to watch while I do my thing in the kitchen. In all honesty I let them do this because if I don’t it takes twice as long for me to make dinner — between Kai getting into things he shouldn’t be into and the kids fighting over toys and the boys getting too rough with each other — if they aren’t watching a show while I cook it feels like I am dealing with the kids every two minutes and not getting any cooking done. I wish it wasn’t like that, but that’s the reality right now!
Then it is finally dinner time, and after dinner we have an hour or so to enjoy time together as a family before the bedtime routine begins.
My guess is we’ll follow something like this routine 4 days per week. The 5th day will be for co-op or a field trip. Our co-op meets approximately every other week for three hours in the afternoon. I think we’ll do a light school schedule in the morning, possibly playing educational games and doing a project for history or science that can be done with Kai underfoot. I am assuming we’ll use most of our non-co-op Thursdays for some kind of outing, and do little to no other school work. Perhaps some weeks we’ll just stay home on our non-co-op days and take a day off or do a light schedule or have a playdate with friends.
That’s the “day-in-the-life” that I am envisioning. I’ll have to revisit this topic in a couple months to see if a day in our life really looks like this!













